When you get old and can’t take care of yourself, will you live with your children?


When you get old, if you can no longer take care of yourself, will you live with your children?In fact, the problem is today, today’s retirees in the 1950s and 1960s, they are the generation that may be taking care of their parents in their old age.So it is natural and natural to raise children for old age in their mind. Of course, some old people will realize their pension in this way.But what we need to say is that not every old person can do this.The reason is simple: most of the children of the retirees of the 1950s and 1960s were born after the 1980s.However, those born after 1980s coincided with the one-child policy, so many families have only one only child.This situation is met, you can rely on the only one child, to carry on the old age life, this is a big question.Because the reason is very simple, some children he may not live in the same city as their parents, some children he is not around their parents.So when it comes to taking care of your parents in old age, obviously there’s not enough money.It is not that the children themselves are not willing to take care of their parents, but that their busy work is the result.Young people nowadays, his work is really very busy, if you have a nine-to-five job, or even two days off every week, it is not easy.Even with such a job, at least during the day from Monday to Friday, you may not be able to accompany your parents and take care of the life of the elderly.But now there are still many young people, his work actually want to achieve the double rest, is a very difficult thing.Some young people are on the so-called 996 work schedule, and some young people may be on shift work.There are even quite a number of young people, for example, engaged in coal mining ah, engaged in remote mountainous work, so he may not be at home all the year round.Even if their parents come to live in their own home, but because you are not at home all the year round, it means that you have no way to take care of their parents’ old-age life, so it is not the parents are not willing to rely on, nor the children themselves are not willing to filial piety, but the result of their own work.It is impossible for him to give up his job and take care of his parents full-time.If this is the case, then it means that he will lose a stable financial income, relying on his parents’ pension, which is certainly not feasible.Therefore, between work and filial piety, many young people will certainly choose the former, but some young people may not be able to take care of their parents themselves, but they will help their parents. For example, it is feasible to hire a nanny, or enter a nursing home, and their children will bear the corresponding expenses.If they do have conditions, such as living in the same city as their parents.And the work is not very busy.If they have the ability and energy to take care of their parents, most of them are willing to take care of their parents, or parents are willing to live with their children.However, due to my work, THERE is no way to take care of my parents. In fact, as a parent, I believe it is understandable.Thank you for reading and talking about retirement knowledge every day. I focus on social security and retirement. If you like my article, you can add my attention.

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